There are many people today that are 'making it' and wanting a way to help others to 'make it' too. When we think of helping others then often it is with advice. You know, like -don't take any wooden nickles- kind of thing. But to really help others, we need to understand better, WHEN and HOW. There is a new book out that gives us some great insights into doing those things that we would like to do. Life Coaching is what it is called and you may even become certified.
Women, we all need them and some want them, but most don't know what to do with them or understand them at all.
Women are a wonder and a huge blessing to men. Their biggest need is to feel secure. This is due to their ability and gift of being able to give birth to us. They want a safe place in which they can see the children reared. I know many don't understand this and don't appreciate women.
Women are also awesome to behold! By nature they are exhibitionists. They will go to great lengths to look so sexy or beautiful in order to attract a mate!
Once they feel secure in that, having attracted and captured and bound in marriage a mate, then they may cecum to the normal human tendency of laziness. They may not dress up as often or put on their face as usual or fix their hair the way they used too. This is why many men become upset a short while into the marriage and often refer to it as bondage. But they too have usually beat the woman to the punch of becoming lazy as they have parked their fat ass on the chair in front of the TV and demanded their beer.
Today's society has really added some extra bad twists to womanhood. First there is the TV. Here the lovelies can sit by the hour and watch dramas that are best not watched as they are total lies, when it comes to reality. Many women think though that this is the way they should or are even enabled to act in their lives and so become 'Drama Queens'. Bitching their way through life and making every one around them uneasy at best or just running away to get free from them.
Another way that society has had a negative impact on womanhood, is to say and make it almost absolutely necessary, that women should get a job( or jobs). This is the bankers fault because of how they have wrecked the financial and fiscal systems of the world. How can a woman feel secure, working where she can never make more than her man or if she does then making him not feel like a man, and still not make enough to adequately provide for her brood. Then she doesn't have adequate time left in the day to care for her children which should be her second priority after her man.
Now I have basically been talking about a 'paternal' society. In a maternal society, then the woman's needs become more accented and known and readily dealt with. Women are respected far more and cared for more. In some maternal societies the woman even chooses the man and will not marry, because they consider marriage not to be beneficial to their future. This is in-case the man is not a good one and then she will kick him out and find another. There is such a society in the Kunming area of China. Some of the maternal societies of the Native Americans too, revere the women of their clan and go to great lengths to protect and honor them.
'Mother Earth is our mother', is some good teaching for all of us. She gives birth to us just like a woman and she needs and warrants our respect and care.
I hope this little bit will help more than it offends.
Women are also awesome to behold! By nature they are exhibitionists. They will go to great lengths to look so sexy or beautiful in order to attract a mate!
Once they feel secure in that, having attracted and captured and bound in marriage a mate, then they may cecum to the normal human tendency of laziness. They may not dress up as often or put on their face as usual or fix their hair the way they used too. This is why many men become upset a short while into the marriage and often refer to it as bondage. But they too have usually beat the woman to the punch of becoming lazy as they have parked their fat ass on the chair in front of the TV and demanded their beer.
Today's society has really added some extra bad twists to womanhood. First there is the TV. Here the lovelies can sit by the hour and watch dramas that are best not watched as they are total lies, when it comes to reality. Many women think though that this is the way they should or are even enabled to act in their lives and so become 'Drama Queens'. Bitching their way through life and making every one around them uneasy at best or just running away to get free from them.
Another way that society has had a negative impact on womanhood, is to say and make it almost absolutely necessary, that women should get a job( or jobs). This is the bankers fault because of how they have wrecked the financial and fiscal systems of the world. How can a woman feel secure, working where she can never make more than her man or if she does then making him not feel like a man, and still not make enough to adequately provide for her brood. Then she doesn't have adequate time left in the day to care for her children which should be her second priority after her man.
Now I have basically been talking about a 'paternal' society. In a maternal society, then the woman's needs become more accented and known and readily dealt with. Women are respected far more and cared for more. In some maternal societies the woman even chooses the man and will not marry, because they consider marriage not to be beneficial to their future. This is in-case the man is not a good one and then she will kick him out and find another. There is such a society in the Kunming area of China. Some of the maternal societies of the Native Americans too, revere the women of their clan and go to great lengths to protect and honor them.
'Mother Earth is our mother', is some good teaching for all of us. She gives birth to us just like a woman and she needs and warrants our respect and care.
I hope this little bit will help more than it offends.
